Jun
More on Social Networking
The last post I wrote about social networking was quite a while ago. Since then I think I’ve settled into a groove with it. I found a really cool gadget called Digsby (www.digsby.com) that puts the three main ones into one place. Facebook, MySpace and Twitter now sit in my desktop tray. What’s cool is that I don’t have to check to see if I have messages. I just hover my curser over the icon and it tells me.
Since getting Digsby I go to MySpace more often - which is good. In the past, my friends would leave me comments and then get upset that it took me sometimes a week or two to acknowledge them. The reason was it just was too much effort for me to sign in. Seriously. MySpace doesn’t keep you signed in. Digsby does.
Digsby doesn’t help me to leave comments more often, but at least now I am saying Thank You in a more acceptable timeframe. With all this new media social networking, we cannot forget our traditional social etiquette and manners. If you don’t acknowledge someone’s kindness, they will remember just as they will remember the ones who said Thank You and sent the Birthday wishes.
MySpace has a reputation of being for teenagers. That was true in the beginning but they are trying to be more grown up. They’ve changed the back end a bit and I hear there’s more changes to come.
Facebook, on the other hand, seemed to draw the college crowd or the people who wanted to connect to people from their past. There is still a lot of that going on, but I think it’s much more sophisticated than that now.
Since I’ve been on Facebook for a while I go there more deliberately. In the past I would open the site, but I wasn’t really sure what to do there. Now that I’ve been there a while I know what must be done and what’s a waste of my time. When I see a (1) when I hover over Facebook, I go check it out.
Facebook has a lot of rules that you need to follow. It doesn’t allow anyone to conduct business, ie advertise/spam. You can invite people to business happenings, though. It doesn’t allow you to grow your friends list very fast, either. As a matter of fact, it caps your friends at 5000. You can only have one account and it must be your real name. Break a rule and your account will be deleted. Seriously.
Twitter is the one that can get you into trouble because its role is not clearly defined yet. Many people still post what they are doing each and every minute. “Eating ham sandwich.” If you read that, would you care? If not, then don’t post what you are eating.
So what do you post on Twitter? Keep it interesting - ask yourself, “If I were to read this, would I be interested?” That’s the best I can advise.





